Bitchiness is not a Crime

Just another woman who try to look wise

Bitterness of life

Last nite, I was chatting with a friend… we talked about what made some people hate to see others happy.
I told this friend, I remember the time (not so long ago – you can sense it in my writtings), when I look down on happy people. I thought, they must’ve been shallow, there are so many things in life that would make one unhappy, if only they realised it.
On the other side, there are so many things in life that can make us happy… if only we choose to see it.
I told this friend of mine, I was unhappy because I choose not to be happy, it justify myself to be bitter and sad.
But as I make friend with a wonderful person, who was my boss, I saw that she is happy with her life.
She didn’t make work as her distraction of real life, it is part of her life and she has other parts as well.
She choose to be happy and content.
So I learn to be happy and content, when I realised what I have now, I realised that I don’t have any reason to be unhappy.
Sometimes, things in life didn’t go as we planned, but that’s fine… it is part of life, and life has something else in store for us.
So what, if my life course doesn’t go as others? Does this mean that I’m happier than them? Or they are happier than me?
Each has made their own decision a long time ago, hence they need to acknowledge the result of their decision. Don’t pity yourself, because what you are today, are your own responsibility. Others can’t drive you, you drive your own path.
If you can’t be happy for others, then be happy for yourself.
If you don’t want to be the way you are, then change yourself.
Only you have the control, only you can decide.

Don’t blame others for you own unhappiness, they’ve got nothing to do with it!


September 27, 2011 - Posted by | B*tching, In between, Life in General, Philosophy

1 Comment »

  1. U r right Jeng. I do 100% agree with u Jeng.
    best regards

    Comment by Irawan Danuningrat | December 31, 2011 | Reply

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