Bitchiness is not a Crime

Just another woman who try to look wise

To kill a mocking bitch

A long time virtual friend (that I finally met last year), says to me, “…I can take your cynicism, but why do you have to mock men and put it in your blog”.


I’ve never intended to dedicate my blog for men mockery. I do put some harsh words for men in general and specific, but the main purpose was not to criticised men (not entirely, it’s not). When I started to write blog on Friendster, it was more or less like a diary. And when I read it over again, I see that it’s not very exciting and so typical of woman whining to find love, etc. etc.

Then I realised that what I talk and discuss with my friends and people around me are more exciting and more interesting…

I wrote my first exciting piece on singlehood with a good friend, and at first I wanted her to be another author of this blog. But she decided to do otherwise, she made a blog of her own. So I am left to write all by myself.

The first thought when I started this blog was, “I believe that there are other female of my kind to feel the same way, I wanted to meet them and get their opinion of these topics”.

Yet, apparently, so little has interests in these matters (which makes me even curious to know what’s in people’s head).

Instead inviting females, as you can see, most of my visitors are males. (yet, another interesting fact!)

I wonder, is it only me who feels the way I am, or these things are supposed to be kept as a secret of the heart? Since I know that many times I talk to other people, they would agree to some extend that they also feel the same way.

I may sounded like a pathetic biatch that need to get laid or something, but for me, I am just being honest and true to myself (and the world).

I like a good healthy discussion, and I do believe that is actually the main purpose of this blog, so I can talk about my thoughts with people who finds it interesting and they can agree or disagree with everything I said.


July 7, 2009 - Posted by | B*tching, In between, Life in General, Men, Relationship, Women


  1. they just need more time too understand your unbelievable talent
    but i loooooove you the way you are :p

    Comment by mrs.hugeng bawono | July 19, 2009 | Reply

    • I really wish they just stop and try to do that mbak…
      And I love you the same… you are lucky to find him lhooo 🙂

      Comment by hapitri | July 21, 2009 | Reply

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