Bitchiness is not a Crime

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A Good Friend

I keep asking myself, have I been a good friend to my dearest friends? Have I love my friends without doubts? Have I been a shoulder to cry on for them? Have I look after them? Have I support them like I should?

All those question running through my head…

Last night I sent one of my dearest friends away to be with her husband in Rotterdam. She told me that she might not be able to come home for awhile, at first it doesn’t feel like something dreadful. But the day after, she texted me… then I realized that distance and time might separates us. We will never be the same. It’s worst than having someone died, because I know that she will return changed, as I will.

It was me who encourage her to go to her husband, although she don’t want to. But I know that if the two of them separated for too long, they will never love each other the same. I’m sending her away in the price of our love, our friendship and our memories. I know that the cost worth it. I’d do the same if I was her…

Have I been a good friend? Is it the right thing to do to sacrifice our friendship?

Have I been a good friend? Is it the right thing to send a good friend to a strange land?

Have I been a good friend? Is it the right thing to do to make her drop her life here?

Have I been a good friend? Is it the right thing to do to make her live the life I long?

Have I been a good friend? Is it the right thing to be sad when she went away to embrace her love?

Have I been a good friend? I hope I have… and I hope she will be happy with her husband.

All I can do now is wishing her the best and until we meet again my dear friend, I know that it’ll be soon 😉

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April 29, 2008 - Posted by | Friendship, Life in General

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